"i want to be a doctor ,Daddy?what if it happened with me? i never want to be a victim of all these.Would i live my life as per my wishes and explore myself as per my comfort or would i have to circumscribe myself just because these disgustings surround me all arround.i am safe na,Daddy?plz,tell na,Daddy!"
"Have you ever suffered from all these,Mumma?what steps had you taken then?what had you done?plz,tell na,Mumma!"
This eight years old girl child,the whole life is resting next to her is just growing from her cuteness by gaining some sort of senses and understandings gradually.she might not have thought of this Eve teasing,harrassment,molestation and R....A....P....E. it's time to play and enjoy her childhood because childhood is the most blissfull period of entire life span once gone never return.What nonsense she is talking about?STUPID GIRL! RIGHT? But why she felt need to think of this?What such happened that scared her?what was seen that she began to put questionmark on her safety in such a small age when all childs are treated as a form of god?Absolutly,Facts are considerable.
we are in the 21st century where girls are no longer limited by the wall of thier houses.They are stepping out and presenting themself extraordinarily.They are doing all what a man supposed to do.In fact,sometimes beyond the men's arena.Really appreciable.Really independence have given them chance to prove themselves and they are doing exceptionally effective.They are no more lesser than men.i am not misquoting But despite of all these is the fact worth taking as they feel free in real?if yes,why this girl child is putting a questionmark on her freedom?
No doubt,her parent share thier company at each and every step.They promise her that she would never be a victim.she would never suffer all these.Exactly no parents want this.This assurance and promise will surely make her believe that she is safe or her Mumma's answer will give her strength to fight against all these but as she will reach into the stage to observe and analyse things happening all around her,there would be a possibilty of a question,"AM I A GENDER,THAT'S ALL?".
Their are a number of mind who judge girls from their outer appearance.They comment and tease on their physique.They treat them just as a body.Are they just a Body?Really? No,No,No,they are not.They are more than this.You think like that becuase you posses such sick type attitude.Their is not even a single day that brings news without any case of eve teasing,harrassment,molestation,rape,etc.We read or watch and react as per our understandings.someone among you would try to figure out the cause.At where did you reach?Who should be blamed?we or they,mentality or society?Exactly who?Stop to blame and just look in to your own attitude.It doesn't matter what you are seeing but how you are seeing.A
rapist mind is more dangerous than a rapist because it has a chance to grow again.So change the mentality and stop treating youself a superior.
you have done but have you ever thought of thier feelings.Just one time,only just one time treat them as sentient being as you are.Get the attitude off staring them based on their dressing sense and sex and introspect.what do you feel now?what did you conclude? IS SHE STILL A GENDER,THAT'S ALL?
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